• Evkob@lemmy.ca
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    9 months ago

    Personally I feel like if you have to ask, I’d lean towards caution and not sending it. I mean, best case she gets a chuckle out of it, worse case it kinda creeps her out.

    If you’re unambiguously an ally and she has seen proof of/knows this, most trans people I know would be fine with it. I’m not sure the risk/reward is worth it though (and tbh I’d say the same for sending memes to any coworkers one’s not on more familiar terms with)

    • Fal@yiffit.net
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      9 months ago

      Personally I feel like if you have to ask, I’d lean towards caution and not sending it.

      That’s exactly why I don’t plan to =].

      most trans people I know would be fine with it

      I should have been more explicit with my question, as that’s kind of what I was getting at. If most trans people are comfortable being identified as trans even if it’s in a neutral/positive context