• EatATaco@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    Two things.

    wife pointed out that his comments have a misogyny and racist tone

    First you’re putting words in my mouth. She never said anything about my tone making her believe that, but that my dislike might be misogynistic and/or racist. I believe this is because I wasn’t explaining my position well, so without a good reason, it opened the door for that possibility.

    Second,

    “And if someone thinks it’s racist and sexist, it maaaaaay be true.”

    Not ok.

    It’s a good thing that I’m open to the possibility that I’m biased. This is not something to shit on. I don’t get why this is such a bad thing. Bring open to being wrong is how you grow.

    • laughterlaughter@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Understood, and you clarified in another comment.

      Your original comment was not clear enough, at least not to me, but now that I have the full context, I see that you’re not some racist/sexist asshole. But of course, it was wrong of me to accuse you of that in the first place without asking you to clarify. I’ll do that from now on.