Moldy Monday continues.

  • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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    5 months ago

    I have a personal hypothesis that self-proclaimed alpha [males] may feel the same gender dysphoria that trans folk do, only it is the sensation that they present less masculine than they actually do, so in their effort to attaining a little bit of machismo they go way overboard.

    It’s similar I think to the way Donald Trump can be President of the United States, and still feel fragile and unworthy.

    • Windex007@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Lol, so if I’m hearing you right, people who yap endlessly about “being alpha” are “beta to alpha trans”?

      • BellyPurpledGerbil@sh.itjust.works
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        5 months ago

        I do think there is some element of gender disillusionment if not dysphoria in very insecure men. I don’t think calling them some stage of trans has the right implications though. They are men that want to stay men. But their internal views of men are constantly challenged by their culture and environment.

        Nothing says women can’t have muscular bodies or else they must be men or being a woman wrong in some way. But that dissonance obviously irritates the type of guy that unironically wants to be an alpha gigachad. So they impose their own standards on others, unknowingly outing their insecurities.

        If I’m being really honest though even if I thought all of that was likely, it’s way more likely that people on the Internet just love to start flame wars about anything if they’re bored enough. Especially when the target is a woman.