• rottingleaf@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    The true problem is not a problem, it’s the reality of human sexuality where most men and some women see female breasts as sexual most of time.

    There are different situations where nudity of all kinds is not perceived sexually, that doesn’t affect the general rule that I shouldn’t run around the block all naked.

    Saying it’s not equal because men too have nipples and those are not perceived as sexual is kinda strange. Let’s abolish pregnancy leaves then. Gender may be a social construct by now, sex is obviously not, and (most) humans are not hermaphrodites, so the rules can’t be the same.

    This is a nothing burger of a subject frankly, we already know that real world doesn’t fit ideal ideas. If some ideal idea would describe the real world, then you’d only need that ideal idea to know it all and other information wouldn’t matter. Some religious fanatics are actually trying, destroying all the knowledge and art not coming from their holy book.

    This doesn’t work, the real world is as complex as all the information in it. An action is good or bad only in a particular real situation.

    Which is also why choosing a seemingly ideal enough principle and trying to fit it to everything, pretending that makes everyone equal, is a lie.

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      2 months ago

      Women are allowed to walk around in sandals and no shoes at the beach despite foot fetishes being one of the most common paraphilias(behind breasts.)

      You don’t see women getting accosted by guys who like feet because they have their toes out and it’s sexual to some guy nearby.

      If dudes into feet can control themselves and be respectful then so can dudes into breasts when they are near a top less woman in public.

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        2 months ago

        As far as I’m concerned walking totally naked should be legal, though for practical implications of varying ass-wiping culture and genitals saying things we don’t put into words, I suppose, it would be “everything is optional except pants”.