• Commiejones [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    if it did work and made my family and friends proud then I could stop struggling.

    Why can’t they be proud that you are happy? Why do you need them to be proud of you? It sounds like they are projecting their desires/dreams on to you. You could be honest with them and tell them you aren’t happy trying to make them proud the way they want. You want them to be proud of you for being you. Or you could ghost your family and friends who sound like they want you to be someone you don’t want to be.