So the guy gets no care because the system is not fit for purpose?

Gawd, I know it happens more often in women but my husband had a nasty recurring UTI for a few months - they absolutely took it seriously and treated him! WTF, I hope you manage to get treated. ETA: UK

I’m a little older than you and share your opinions.

To me it feels like discovering rn in the 1980s. I hope it stays that way!