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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • (FYI: this is divorcées attempting to date)

    Went on my 1st date after divorce. Sat down together at a café. After greeting each other, she immediately asks “So when do you intend to move to my town?”. I reply by saying “Whoa! Take it slow. Let’s get to know each other first!” and feeling that she can’t be serious about her question.

    She, however, explodes in my face that she has a life and a kid in that other town and no time to waste. I managed to reply that I have a life and kids in this current town we’re in, too, before she jumps up and storms away cursing.

    Not the most conducive first post-marital dating experience.




  • In no particular order:

    • Finally do those after-class reading + tutoring sessions for kids in my daughter’s school.
    • Sign up for shifts on the “Good-Night-Bus” in my local town that looks after homeless people during night-time.
    • Play hand-pan, guitar & other random instruments at local relaxation spots to add to the overall atmosphere of “the good life”
    • regularly offer my handymen skills to my neighborhood via local web-platform and also contribute to “Repair-Cafés” as a helping hand
    • Find a local community-garden project to help out at so that the city stays 0.1% greener than without me
    • Offer my yet-currently-relevant professional skills (Frontend / WebPerf / CDNs / DevOps) to a NGO that couldn’t usually afford my wages (again: preferably something relevant to my region to feel a sense of impact)
    • Keep maintaining my OpenSource repositories and publish new ideas ASAP to prevent Software Patents



  • Long-term custom ROM user here.

    Regarding security: as always, it depends on your threat model. If you fear a government actor getting access to your phone, a locked bootloader won’t slow them down.

    Regarding privacy: I’ve had both VPN logs and external Wireshark running against traffic going in&out of my custom ROM phones & sometimes I still do it for fun. If you know what you’re getting into (e.g. LoS still using some Google services) then a Custom ROM usually holds far fewer surprises than some questionable OEM ROM (and which is terrifyingly scarce regarding changelogs while still having OTA update power).

    tl;dr: stick with well-known ROMs & you get … not the best of both worlds … but a “good enough” of both worlds.





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    1 year ago

    Poco X3 NFC with LineageOS.

    200,-€ price, excellent photo quality if paired with fitting GCAM mod (AGC) plus config. Powerful enough as daily driver, privacy-frieendly enough after some simple changes, runs everything I need & if it drops & breaks (2 kids at home…) it’s an affordable loss (I’m diligent about backups).