The fact there’s nothing I can’t do to hurt him or his reputation in any way pisses me off.

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    18 hours ago

    If you are 30 to 40 years old and something like being bullied 20 yeardon’t still stresses you out then it might be something you should find a shrink to help you with because at 30 or 40 years old you should have enough emotional intelligence at this point in life to not be so affected by this like you are. Not being a dick just speaking from the experience of working on my own emotional intelligence and being in that 30-40 year old age range. There is a lot to say about getting help from a shrink but honestly it mostly comes from people who should prolly be seeing a shrink themselves but dont.

    With that being said i do want to point out that my original 3 year anecdote requires you to get stressed out over the memories. Meaning there is a difference between remembering something stressfull from 3 years ago and being stressed by something you remember from 3 years ago. Sorry if I explained that poorly in my first comment.

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        8 hours ago

        OK. So you acknowledge that you have the emotional intelligence of a 16 year old. You should do something to try and improve that so you stop responding to things like an idiot.

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          I guess being a bitch is being a kid according to you. Just don’t waste my time then. I read your comments and post you’re a child. I don’t have time for this