I met a girl that I’m interested in and enjoys comics like I do, would something like asking her out to a comic store be dumb? I have a hard time talking to girls so not sure if this would be a dumb idea.

  • umbrella@lemmy.ml
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    8 months ago

    I kind of agree. I think its important to give a hint at what you want. Women pick up on this and it will save you some grief if for some reason expectations are misaligned. Its common for wires to cross if you are a newbie, and its not a demerit to be clearer about it.

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      8 months ago

      Yeah, I feel like the advice in the original comment is the kind of advice I would’ve given and liked to hear when I was younger, especially because it’s easier to get a “yes” as an answer.

      Without knowing the whole context and what OP actually wants, it’s hard to know what’s best.

      But sorry you got downvoted, there’s a bit of a downvote train going on! Lol